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#1 OFFLINE   loshi

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Posted 30 December 2016 - 12:27 AM

I haven't been here much in the last couple of years, and I was checking on some of my Shy friends. I was not surprised that most of them have moved on.

My shy class was February 2012. It has been fun, but not without heartache.
Shy for me was and still is a place where I always feel welcome. I would like to think that today I'm wiser...but sometimes, that's questionable.

I'm definitively not in the same place where I was when I joined this group.

I valued the friendships I have made here.  They have helped me through my darkest time.
I have learned a lot about people, sexuality and myself.

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Posted 30 December 2016 - 08:23 AM

I'll come back to this. Great topic!

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Posted 30 December 2016 - 02:03 PM

I'm a newbie, but the most significant thing I've learned is, I'm not alone! There are other married women who feel the way that I do and who want the things that I want.

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Posted 02 January 2017 - 08:03 AM

My shy class is 2013, but with a sizable break for about a year. More active as of recently in the past 6 months or so. The site is amazing and wonderful. Its one of only few places I can really voice my inner thoughts and receive and give feedback. This is such an important part of life for me, the sharing of experiences, thoughts and ideas. Further more its so important to have a space to be caring and candid about such personal issues. Most of the topics and threads on here are made of the stuff that we as humans survive on for quality of life. Sex, kids, desires, fantasies, emotional support and a sense of camaraderie and like minded friends. Its a wonderful site that is run well, thanks to the owner and the mods and all the genuine members on here. It a part of my weekly, and sometimes daily routine to check the site, post topics and provide feedback when I feel I have something helpful to add. Lets keep Shybi awesome ladies! Thanks for the topic.

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Posted 03 January 2017 - 03:51 AM

My shy class is 2017 (I'm a newbie). Thus far, I've learned that I'm not alone, my feelings are not wrong or crazy, and that many of the questions I have are already addressed. I simply need to look. As I travel down this new path, I look forward to learning about myself and all things bi.
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Posted 24 January 2017 - 09:43 PM

Holy crap-balls, I joined here in 2011...  I remember I stumbled upon this place when I was freaking out about girl who I wasn't sure if she was into girls - found out she was and found out she had never even kissed a girl before me.  [ended up dating, engaged & living with her for a long time - until I came home from work and found a note saying she moved out]

What have I learned since I joined? Well, I've learned:
- love hurts more than I thought
- I use the word "chick" way too often when talking about myself
- there's a lot more bi chicks out there than I ever thought
- sometimes you just gotta kiss the girl in the middle of where ever you are
- sometimes you find love in the most surprising places when you're not even looking for it

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Posted 24 January 2017 - 09:51 PM

My Shy class is 2017 (absolute newbie), was very relieved to find this site as it doesn't make you feel "alone". I look forward to learning and chatting on this site.

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Posted 24 January 2017 - 10:15 PM

My shy class is 2016.Now what i have learned.More about myself,that's for sure.To be more open and not afraid of interacting for whatever reasons.I have learned that everything is possible to happen in this incredible life and that some people enter our lives for specific reasons.I have no regrets for anything and i would do everything all over again!

Edited by kairi, 24 January 2017 - 10:18 PM.

“Voici mon secret. Il est très simple: on ne voit bien qu'avec le cœur. L'essentiel est invisible pour les yeux.”

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Posted 24 January 2017 - 10:42 PM

Gosh, I'm the class of 2009!! I have taken mainly breaks! I think that this time, I feel as though I've realised that it's ok not to know everything! And that life happens at its own pace! For the first time ever yesterday I indicated to a friend that I might (also) be interested in girls- which wouldn't have ever been  something I would be willing to divulge before.  I hope I stay as open to life as I currently am!


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Posted 25 January 2017 - 02:44 AM

Im a 2017 newbie and I've learned that I'm not alone and that I should not be ashamed of who I am or who/what I like.

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Posted 31 January 2017 - 03:03 AM

Class of 2016 :D

I've learned:
Eye contact is wonderful
To make a move and be more forward if I really want something
If I'm open and accepting sooner or later I'll find some really cool people
And it turns out I find hearing a women speak with an accent incredibly sexy :D

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Posted 31 January 2017 - 11:36 AM

2014. Weird! I know I've learned a lot (and had more experiences). It's hard to pinpoint all of the ways I've figured myself out and changes that have happened, but liking back to then, I definitely didn't know myself like I do now.

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Posted 31 January 2017 - 12:40 PM

Class of 2008 here...

Crazy to think I've been on shys this long.

I've learned I'm very very gay...

I have had so many wonderful connections on here and this place and the people I've met through being on this site have brought out sides to me I'd never have known about myself. The best thing being I met my fiancee here. We've been together 3 years next month. She changed my whole world. I fell head over heels in love with someone I never imagined I would even find anything in common with who lived at the bottom of England and had just gotten married to a man 4 months earlier and was working on starting her family, where as I was a confused mum of 2 who knew she was gay but hadn't quite figured out how to live a happy life with myself as a gay woman. I've learned once I care about someone they will always be in my heart. Ive learned not to judge anyone from how they appear on the outside and I've learned the world isn't such a big place. I love this site for the variety of people from all walks of life and in all different situations. Who have all came here out of confusion and wanting to belong. This place no matter how much it's changed in the last 9 years will always have a massive piece of me. I couldn't ever walk away and not come back. Some of The happiest memories in my life have came from joining here! The meets I used to attend. The friendships I've made. This is entwined with me now. Even if I rarely post or come on anymore. Xx

I believe that everything happens for a reason. People change so that you can learn to let go, things go wrong so that you appreciate them when they're right, you believe lies so you eventually learn to trust no one but yourself, and sometimes good things fall apart so better things can fall together.

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Posted 31 January 2017 - 10:41 PM

View PostFlannelFish, on 31 January 2017 - 03:03 AM, said:

Class of 2016 :D

I've learned:
Eye contact is wonderful
To make a move and be more forward if I really want something
If I'm open and accepting sooner or later I'll find some really cool people
And it turns out I find hearing a women speak with an accent incredibly sexy :D

I have accent too F!!I can also whisper in Greek :P
“Voici mon secret. Il est très simple: on ne voit bien qu'avec le cœur. L'essentiel est invisible pour les yeux.”

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Posted 01 February 2017 - 02:44 PM

View Postkairi, on 31 January 2017 - 10:41 PM, said:

I have accent too F!!I can also whisper in Greek :P

I know :maninlove:    Come whisper in my ear  :D

Edited by FlannelFish, 01 February 2017 - 02:45 PM.


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Posted 01 February 2017 - 08:08 PM

When I joined in 2015, I was blown away to discover that there are husbands out there who are accepting of their wives being sexual with women.

I have learned that I'm not crazy or wrong or inauthentic to be married to man but attracted to women as well.

I've learned that being bi is more of a paradox to be managed than a problem to be solved.

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Posted 01 February 2017 - 08:19 PM

I'm new but it's good to learn lots of girls think like me

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Posted 02 February 2017 - 01:43 AM

Summer of 16' here

Oh what I've learned....
It's possible to be in love with more than one person
That I am not as straight as I thought I once was
When you feel chemistry, follow your gut
Sex with a woman was even hotter than imagined
When you connect with a woman on every level it is one of the most fulfilling feelings in the world
Eye's are killer and reach my core
Kissing a woman is probably one of the most sensual activities out there
When u feel something....roll with it

Edited by TBD78, 02 February 2017 - 12:00 PM.


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Posted 06 February 2017 - 06:23 PM

Odd I thought I had replied!!

2015 here. I love reading everyone's stories.

I've learnt that I'm a lesbian in a heterosexual marriage. Although my husband knows I'm bisexual, and I've told him that if I wasn't married to him (and have 3 children with him) that I'd be with a woman.

Touch is intense





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