[JessyRee]

OMG I officially hate people..not you ladies but I don't know how much of this stuff I can take...We went for a visit with my husbands fam this morning and while I was in the bathroom apparently my husband felt the need to disclose my current situation to his brother and so when I came out I was like "hey whats going on?"and he starts laughing and ask's if I let DH join in with my GF.. I couldnt believe it..He continued to poke fun at me and make nasty jokes and needless to say with his mom and other bros' and cousin standing there they caught on..I was treated cooly the rest of the visit and now I don't feel welcome back there..I mean couldnt he at least have waited until my family was fully accepting...This is all just too much shock.I couldnt hobble away fast enough(I'm on crutches right now)..I can't trust anyone!Sorry ladies I just needed to get that out.

[Wildfire]

Oh No!! I can't believe how rude people can be! It's one thing to not agree with someone's personal preferences, but it's not right to humiliate someone especially the way your Brother-in-law carried on in front of the family. I just don't know what I would do in a situation like that, that's why I have never told anyone (not even my husband) my curiousities. I hope things get better for you.

[TayTay]

I think it's very insensitive of your husband, he should have been thinking about you. It's none of their business unless YOU were ready to tell. I would very very annoyed at my hubby if he ever thought of doing that. I can't blame you for being annoyed, it's kind of like a betrayal in trust. My hubby is a twin and a blabber mouth but I can trust him not to tell people I don't feel comfortable telling yet. Big hope everything sorts itself out.

[myangel]

i'm so sorry that must of been awful. my partner doesn't like that i'm bi either and has said to me, if i'm proud of my sexuality then why haven't i told my family. i told him i don't see the need to shout about my sexuality from the roof tops but if they were to ask or the convo came up then i would be happy to tell them. so he turned around and said so if i brought up the topic you wouldn't deny it. i was like what hang on a moment. he hasn't done so yet and i don't know if he would.

try not to let this get you down, i would talk to your husband and ask why he did it and then ask why he did not stand up for you.

[relampago]

Your brother-in-law sounds very immature.

Can you speak to your husband and let him know that your sexuality is a private matter of yours, and that it is up to you and you only to disclose it to others?

[Mira]

OMG hun!

I can only imagine how you must feel. I think I would die if my DH let my "secret" slip to his fam.
I mean they already hate me I am sure this would just be fuel for the fire.
I feel for you hun! At least you have shy's to turn to for support =)


Hugs
<3 Mira

[LilythePink]

where is the respect here ?

I see none at all !

[alice-in]

I agree, very disrespectful of your DH.

Does he have some problem or resentment or passive aggressive stuff about what is going on with your bisexuality/relationships that he felt the need to blurt it out without your permission at his family gathering? Or was it more like bragging to his brother?

Either way, he had to know your brother in law would react immaturely, right? And did not stop him? I would be really pissed at him, cause now you have the whole in-law can of worms (and whoever they want to tell) and god knows that sucks.
I'm so sorry you're having to deal with this.