"So is is just sex or a relationship we want ?
We all think frequently of 'being' with another woman, but is it just the sex, do you want the whole 'full on' relationship, or even something in between ? "
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I want a special female friendship for long-term relationship.
A woman to be a shopping companion, dance partner, girl-talk buddy, a feminine woman who is willing to become an actual girlfriend.
Someone who is understanding that I have a man in my life and that he will be in our lives.
The ultimate goal is to find a women who is willing to join us as a trine (an equal).
I want a real relationship with another woman.
An emotional connection, someone to share my love with.
Personally I would prefer to have a best friend first, see how it went, then decide if I would want to commit to her. Then I would think about sex. I generally dont and never have had casual sex with either gender.
I have never really enjoyed sex unless there was emotional feelings for each other so I guess I would be looking for someone who is like a best friend and then a commitment with them. The sex would come later
Sex and emotion are so intertwined for me, I'm not sure I could really be into the sex if there wasn't something more...
I want a special female friendship for long-term relationship.
A woman to be a shopping companion, dance partner, girl-talk buddy, a feminine woman who is willing to become an actual girlfriend.
Someone who is understanding that I have a man in my life and that he will be in our lives.
The ultimate goal is to find a women who is willing to join us as a trine (an equal).
I want a real relationship with another woman.
An emotional connection, someone to share my love with.
I wouldnt want to be with a female just for sex...im the kinda girl who enjoys the emotional connection with another girl...being able to be friends first would be the ultimate for me...as others have said, the sex would come later.
I have been lucky enough to experience this once, not that long ago and believe me I enjoyed my time with her to the max and long for that connection again. Who knows maybe I will get lucky again......just hope its sooner rather than later
I'm looking for a more long term relationship. Someone who I really feel comfortable with, to go and do the usual girly things together. To be honest its not about the sex. Its more to do with that closeness. Cuddles on the sofa, kissing in bed. These are just some of things I dream about. I suppose knowing me I would go along the lines of wanting to be friends with someone and then see what happens from there. If it goes any further than friendship then Its a bonus! but to be honest I've not found the right person yet. So I'm starting to think I'll always be alone?
I have not had an actual full on relationship with a woman. Before I got married, I had sex with other women, but they tended to be one night stands (don't mean to sound like a total user, but I totally enjoyed being single - put it that way). I am monogomous, so since I have been married, I have not slept with anyone else except my hubby (yawn). He knows I'm bi, and is quite excited about that, and we do tend to check out girls in bars (only looking/admiring though). We have talked about threesomes, but have not done anything about it yet, I suppose I feel a bit freeky about it - so I guess what I am saying in a round about sort of way, is that, I guess it's about the sex!
She doesn't have to be a BEST friend but a friend is good. I have to know her, I can't just meet a girl and then do it with her. I mean I've done that once before and it was a huge mistake, she ended up being pretty much a chav. Really just...stupid. I have to be confortable enough to be naked with them and that takes a certain about of trust for me. It's hard because the girls I've met either don't really wanna do it and afraid of saying so, or they're just waiting to do it and getting to know each other is a waste of time. AHH! so frustrating.
I am not sure what I want. I always thought it was just the sex, but I am not too sure anymore. I would definitely want a friendship, but with that and sex, emotion comes in and so does the "all out" relationship.
As in my welcome forum post I put that I had kissed other girls. Just so happened the other girls were 2 of my best friends. At first it was a little embarrassing but then it just started happening all the time when we were at the clubs. I guess it would have to be someone I felt very comfortable with. Unfortunatly, we had talked about bi-curious but never acted upon it and now I live 1500 miles away. I guess at least a friendship first would be in order.
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